I notice that women are huge trolls. We're rude and judgmental, but we definitely objectify men in a sexual fashion. We lead them on and push them around.
Men are called sexist for these things. They're insulted and torn down if a single woman can make so much as an implication that they intended whatever "offense" to be an imagined infraction against our gender. ...Yet it's fine when we insult and tear them down?
You can't play the "victim card" if you're too busy shoving bile down your throat. That's not justified anger, that's bitterness. Learning to handle this in a mature and adult way doesn't excuse their behavior, but it certainly stops you from allowing good intentions to snowball you into a monster.
I get it. There are guys out there who are scary, or rude, or abusive. Some women do need legitimate help recognizing those threats and addressing them. There are bad men out there--"fuckboys", guys who are friendzoned.
For every bad example I can think of, I can also think of a good example of an actual nice guy.
Don't let the possibility of a bad boy make you into a villain, because the minute you attack them, the minute you degrade yourself for the promise of a whisper--to be popular, or because it's "fair"--you become a villain. You become worse than them. Then, the "bad" boy is the hero because you were so busy talking about what was fair for us as women that you didn't give an actual fuck about how we as women treated men.
That isn't equality, ladies: that's bullshit.
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